Tuesday, November 1, 2011
what stays in college
Monday, October 31, 2011
Halloween
Saturday, October 29, 2011
DE cide?
Far
We've been traveling far
Without a home
But not without a star
Free
Only want to be free
We huddle close
Hang on to a dream
On the boats and on the planes
They're coming to America
Never looking back again
They're coming to America (Neal Diamond "America")
Everywhere around the world
They're coming to America
Every time that flag's unfurled
They're coming to America
Got a dream to take them there
They're coming to America
Got a dream they've come to share
They're coming to America (Neal Diamond, "America")
America, what is exactly happening to us?
Friday, October 28, 2011
who,who,who, who are you
Who are you?
Who, who, who, who?
Who are you?
Who, who, who, who?
Who are you?
Who, who, who, who?
Who are you?
Who, who, who, who?, (“Who are you”, by The Who)
In the mid sixties to mid seventies, Woody Allen made a whole lot of movies primarily about neurotic Jewish men. His protagonist was seemingly the Jewish Everyman and among the many frailties of the character he also was physically a nebbish of a man (slight and uncomfortable in his skin). On television during those same years many to most Jews were never the leading man but mainly someone’s friend who was studious, ugly, an accountant, doctor and a miser with money. During those years Jews in the media were portrayed as characters, stereotypical characters based on the lack of self respect by fellow Jewish writers and the lack of conscience by anyone else.
If you were a Jew in the movies or television show you never got the pretty girl, you lusted after the pretty Non Jewish female, or the one pretty Jewish girl was lifted on a horse by some well built successful Non Jewish man of her dreams, not her nebbish Jewish compatriot.
I grew up in a very Jewish neighborhood so I knew all of this fantasy was not reality. I had many Jewish friends who fit none of the stereotypes the media dreamed up in hopes to make money. I knew the truth but felt so frustrated when some Non-Jewish friends would ask are they all like Woody Allen, or suggest that somehow we owned the banks, lent money at high interest, or wonder what it was like to get the left over’s when it came to women?
Well, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
Oh, who are you(Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
Oh Tell me, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?) (“Who are you”, by The Who)
During the past few years Gays have become quite popular in the media, there is even a cable station supposedly dedicated to the life and times of the LGBT community. We have reality shows showcasing angry Gay men all dressed up in tight jeans that have hissy fits and cat fights with their buddies. We have Gay men who love to play dress up. We have gay men as drag queens and we have Gay men who make the girls from the movie “Mean Girls” look tame. How nice to show America the life and times of Gay men.
I am a Gay man and none of my friends do any of the above mentioned activities. Some of my friends are a little flamboyant, some of my friends are boring as hell, some of my friends have no idea what shirt matches which pants, and some of my friends are more worried about meeting their monthly debt obligations then throw the next big party.
I know a variety of people who among many positive things in their life happen to be Gay. I know a variety of people who have never been nor do they want to be a one dimensional character shallow and selfish. I have met some Non Gay people who ask me if most men only care about their looks, wear dresses, act like bitches or are so self centered that it is only what is good for them that counts.
I woke up in a Soho doorway
A policeman knew my name
He said "You can go sleep at home tonight
If you can get up and walk away"
I staggered back to the underground
And the breeze blew back my hair
I remember throwin' punches around
And preachin' from my chair
Well, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
I really wanna know (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
Tell me, who are you? (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?)
'Cause I really wanna know (Who are you? Who, who, who, who?) (“Who are you”, by The Who)
I have grown tired of explaining I am not what you see on the screen. I am tired of saying some of us may be like that and many of us have our own quirks, charms, indiscretions, and unique traits. I have grown tired of only being represented in the media, whether it is as a Jew or a Gay man as a cartoon character. I have grown tired of the same useless jokes being repeated and repeated in order for those who are unaware, ignorant, fearful or empty to try and justify a demographic they just don’t understand, nor really seem to want to know.
Who am I? It is very complicated and it is very simple. Who am I? It is based on ALL of my experiences that have taken me to the ripe old age of 62, and it will be the new memories I make along the way to 63. Who am I? Not the common denominator the writers, producers, actors love have portrayed on the screen. Who am I? I am just like you. Who are you, who, who, who, who?
Thursday, October 27, 2011
a pie in the face
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
four dead in ohio
We're finally on our own.
This summer I hear the drumming
Four dead in Ohio." "Ohio", lyrics by Neil Young
We're finally on our own.
This summer I hear the drumming
Four dead in Ohio." "Ohio", lyrics by Neil Young
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
well ya got toruble
Well, either you're closing your eyes
To a situation you do now wish to acknowledge
Or you are not aware of the caliber of disaster indicated
By the presence of a pool table in your community.
Ya got trouble, my friend, right here,
I say, trouble right here in River City.(Meredith Wilson, “Ya Got Trouble”)
The right of citizens of the United States to vote
shall not be denied or abridged
by the United States
or by any State on account of sex.
Neither the United
nor any state has the right
to keep a citizen from voting
because she is a woman.(portion of the19th amendment of the US Constitution)
Many Americans had a negative response to the suffrage movement; they felt that an amendment to the Constitution giving women the right to vote would cause a radical turn for the worse in our culture. Opponents to women’s suffrage believed a woman’s role was to support the family and take care of matters at home. They thought the suffragist activists were behaving oddly in public, and that their psychological state was warped. In general, they believed women lacked the mental capability to participate in important political events such as elections. (news in history.com)
Friends, lemme tell you what I mean.
Ya got one, two, three, four, five, six pockets in a table.
Pockets that mark the diff'rence
Between a gentlemen and a bum,
With a capital "B,"
And that rhymes with "P" and that stands for pool!
Oh, yes we got lots and lots a' trouble.
I'm thinkin' of the kids in the knickerbockers,
Shirt-tail young ones, peekin' in the pool
Hall window after school, look, folks!
Right here in River City.
Trouble with a capital "T"
And that rhymes with "P" and that stands for pool!(Meredith Wilson, “Ya Got Trouble”)
The Voting Rights Act of 1965 is a landmark piece of national legislation in the United States that outlawed discriminatory voting practices that had been responsible for the widespread disenfranchisement of African Americans in the U.S the Act prohibits states from imposing any "voting qualification or prerequisite to voting, or standard, practice, or procedure ... to deny or abridge the right of any citizen of the United States to vote on account of race or color."
The 1965 Voting Rights Act was a natural follow on to the 1964 Civil Rights Act. Ironically, the 1964 Act had resulted in an outbreak of violence in the South. White racists had launched a campaign against the success that Martin Luther King had had in getting African Americans to register to vote. The violence reminded Johnson that more was needed if the civil rights issue was to be suitably reduced. (Ask.com)
Trouble, oh we got trouble,
Right here in River City!
With a capital "T"
That rhymes with "P"
And that stands for Pool,
That stands for pool.
We've surely got trouble!
Right here in River City,
Right here!(Meredith Wilson, “Ya Got Trouble”)
In a most ironically named case "Loving v. Virginia," Richard and Mildred Loving -- an inter-racial married couple -- were arrested in the early morning of 1959-JUL-11 by police who entered into their bedroom. They had been married five weeks before in the adjacent District of Columbia. The couple pleaded guilty to a felony under Virginia's Racial Integrity Act of 1662. 5 They could have each received a 5 year prison term; instead, they were partly exiled from their home state for 25 years. Each was allowed to return to Virginia, but not together. The judge apparently ignored the principle of church and state as well as the equal protection clause in the U.S. Constitution when delivering his decision. Part of his ruling stated:
"Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races show that he did not intend for the races to mix."Interracial marriage was contrary to God's will, and interracial marriage was somehow "unnatural."
Interracial marriage in the United States has been fully legal in all U.S. states since the 1967 Supreme Court decision that deemed anti-miscegenation laws unconstitutional.
Mothers of River City!
Heed the warning before it's too late!
Watch for the tell-tale sign of corruption!
The moment your son leaves the house,
Does he rebuckle his knickerbockers below the knee?
Is there a nicotine stain on his index finger?
A dime novel hidden in the corn crib?
Is he starting to memorize jokes from Capt.
Billy's Whiz Bang?
Are certain words creeping into his conversation?
Words like 'swell?"
And 'so's your old man?"(Meredith Wilson, “Ya Got Trouble”)
Hartford Public HS presented a play and the culmination had two males kissing.
Peter Wolfgang a representative of the Family Institute of Connecticut was up in arms.
Mr. Wolfgang posed and paused pointed fingers and finally said the following: See parents, see what happens when you first permit same sex marriage in your state. Our state of Connecticut permits this unnatural form of marriage and because of that schools now feel free to permit same sex kissing on a high school stage. See, what we have unleashed by opening the Pandora Box of equal not separate but equal when it comes to marriage.
Mr. Wolfgang raised his finger his veins throbbing as he warned the world of the coming end of the world scenario because like all the other changes denying separate from equal and making everyone equal, the fear of equality for all is terrifying. If you can’t hate openly, if you can’t segregate openly, if you can’t deny openly then there is gonna be trouble.
Well, if so my friends,
Ya got trouble,
Right here in River city!
With a capital "T"
And that rhymes with "P"
And that stands for Pool.
We've surely got trouble!
Right here in River City!(Meredith Wilson, “Ya Got Trouble”)